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Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Life is like a Game
Its been a long time I have written any thing.
I tried many times coming back and writing something but could never got around it. Probably the content was trivial or when I had something good to write I was not able to pen my thoughts. Anyway this post will be slightly rusty, but will hopefully improve on it.
I have slightly philosophical inclination towards things. try to think and dodge lots of questions before I do anything. Like to analyze things a lot and that can be regarding anything, so it is only natural that I keep thinking about how does anyone lead his/her life. Now, I dont want to be presumptuous to claim that I have the right answer but want to make an attempt towards it. Because I feel unless we have a well-defined strategy as to how you want to lead your life it is no good.
So the obvious thing which anyone does is experiment and try out different things which suits the person well. To me it looks like it is a Game...
This whole discussion started (with myself) because of too many relationships (important ones) going wrong at the same time. Now when something of that kind happens you start questioning yourself ?? What went wrong , what the hell is going on etc etc..So even I started probing and digging deeper and deeper.
I think the problem was I was trying too HARD. i was trying too hard to keep up with it, try not to ruin it and got emotionally involved. Now you will say, what a stupid thing it is, unless you are emotionally involved how can you have a relationship in the first place. Well my answer will be, emotional yes but not trying to make it work. Because if you have to make efforts to make something work, sooner or later it will fall. This brings us to our core topic that Life is like a Game. As it is in Game you have to keep your cool and concentrate similarly in Life you should work but have to keep your cool and try not to push things. Should not get emotionally involved with things. Try to be competitive, be athletic (both figurative and literal) and have passion for what you are doing . I think thats the right strategy to lead my life...
I tried many times coming back and writing something but could never got around it. Probably the content was trivial or when I had something good to write I was not able to pen my thoughts. Anyway this post will be slightly rusty, but will hopefully improve on it.
I have slightly philosophical inclination towards things. try to think and dodge lots of questions before I do anything. Like to analyze things a lot and that can be regarding anything, so it is only natural that I keep thinking about how does anyone lead his/her life. Now, I dont want to be presumptuous to claim that I have the right answer but want to make an attempt towards it. Because I feel unless we have a well-defined strategy as to how you want to lead your life it is no good.
So the obvious thing which anyone does is experiment and try out different things which suits the person well. To me it looks like it is a Game...
This whole discussion started (with myself) because of too many relationships (important ones) going wrong at the same time. Now when something of that kind happens you start questioning yourself ?? What went wrong , what the hell is going on etc etc..So even I started probing and digging deeper and deeper.
I think the problem was I was trying too HARD. i was trying too hard to keep up with it, try not to ruin it and got emotionally involved. Now you will say, what a stupid thing it is, unless you are emotionally involved how can you have a relationship in the first place. Well my answer will be, emotional yes but not trying to make it work. Because if you have to make efforts to make something work, sooner or later it will fall. This brings us to our core topic that Life is like a Game. As it is in Game you have to keep your cool and concentrate similarly in Life you should work but have to keep your cool and try not to push things. Should not get emotionally involved with things. Try to be competitive, be athletic (both figurative and literal) and have passion for what you are doing . I think thats the right strategy to lead my life...
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